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Adjustment takes time

The
3-3-3 Rule

Adjustment takes time

The 3-3-3 Rule

The 3-3-3 rule is a helpful guideline, not a deadline. Every animal adjusts at an individual pace.

First

3 Days

What may happen: Hiding, extra sleep, low appetite, accidents, pacing, or uncertainty.

How to help: Offer a quiet decompression space, predictable meals, brief potty breaks, and gentle supervision.

Do not force: Affection, visitors, outings, baths, or introductions.

First

3 Weeks

What may happen: Personality emerges, routines become familiar, and boundaries may be tested.

How to help: Keep a consistent schedule, begin short positive training sessions, and reward calm choices.

Do not force: Fast social progress or situations that overwhelm the pet.

First

3 Months

What may happen: Trust deepens, confidence grows, and the household begins to feel familiar.

How to help: Continue training, enrichment, veterinary care, and calm structure.

Do not force: A perfect timeline. Setbacks can be part of adjustment.

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